~*Love*~

I have a facebook. Who doesn't. lol. But a lot of my friends keep posting pictures of quotes, sayings, whatever. There is one quote going around that is not only stupid, but is really starting to get under my skin. This is the quote:
                                                CHEATING IS EASY. WHY NOT TRY
                                              SOMETHING CHALLENGING MORE
                                              CHALLENGING LIKE STAYING FAITHFUL.
I don't understand it. How is staying faithful a challenge? I was watching the movie ENOUGH with Jennifer Lopez. Her husband is a psycho cheating, abusive lunatic. Well in the first 45 minutes maybe less, he is caught cheating. And he says he is a man. And he has needs. And those needs being met will make the relationship better and easier on her(Jennifer). And of course all those cheaters. I LOVE HER/HIM but cheat non stop. Once yes can be a mistake. As, long as you admit it, work on getting past it, and don't repeat the mistake. But repeatedly is just wrong. How can you say you love someone and turn around some odd minutes/hours later and cheat and then repeat. It's a never ending cycle.

I love my husband. We have our differences. That's what makes us, us. If we were exactly alike, and agreed on everything all the time, there would be no fun. If that were the case, I should of married myself. But we argue. And I'm being truthful and some may say no way, but we hardly argue. In the 6 years we have been married we have had a few bad arguements, but I can count on 1 hand how many times that was. We argue, we discuss to work through our problems, and then we try to make the other laugh. One of us will. We know to not ignore it or sweep it under the rug. I love him. He loves me.

So that gets onto love. What is love for you? What made you fall in love with your spouse? What is it that they do that still makes the butterflies fly, the tingles tingles, the knees get weak? For me, its when, we are out to dinner or even sitting in the truck and a beautiful woman will walk past(yes I notice lol) and his eyes will either be on me or straight ahead and he doesn't even realize her. He truly doesn't. Occasionally he glances, he is a man, but he doesn't gawk(except Kate Beckinsale lol). The way he sees me. I used to get so mad at him for not noticing me without make up on. I worked hard to dress nice, notice me dangit lol. But I realized, he still sees me beautiful without makeup. How he can still find me attractive wearing PJs. If I miss his message online(deployment) he will say JUST WANTED TO SAY I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU.

The honest truth thing that got me was, he kisses my nose. He gives me eskimo kisses. I love that. He will kiss my forehead, my nose. He gives eskimo kisses. ESKIMO KISSES. What guy does that? The way, even though he laughs, he holds me to protect me from my fears. I have a lot.

Thats my love. Thats what made me fall in love. That's what keeps me falling in love. He surprises me everyday with what he says and every year. I love him and always. So tell me your story!